SEVEN YEARS AGO, when I was twenty-five years old, I arrived here in Hong Kong to help my mother. No experience, still young and scared, but very determined to reach my goals.

My life back then was a mess; my father had an affair and my son’s father was also unfaithful. It crushed me.

My mother decided to go back to the Philippines when my child’s father eloped with another woman. That was when I became a single mother and a breadwinner.

Despite what happened, it eases me to know that my mother can take care of my son, especially while I’m away. In addition to everything else that was going on, I also had some bad employers to deal with at that time, but luckily, my current employers are the best!  Disregarding all the hurt that I was feeling, I know my family is my strength and my child is my anchor.

My life was tough, very tough. I remember crying most of the night during my seven years as a domestic helper, but because I really want to give the best life for my family and my son, I continue, always telling myself, “Jie, you can and you will achieve your goals, because God sees all your sacrifices and hard work.”

I realised I’ve learned a lot from those experiences, and they’ve equipped me with skills that I can use in the future. Since that time, I haven’t stopped growing myself. I enrolled here in Hong Kong, took a short course, and also put up a business back in the Philippines. Luckily, I also met the love of life, my person, the one I will spend my life with in the future.

Today marks my seventh year as a domestic helper. Seven years of blood and sweat. Finally, I am going home. I’m so excited to see my family and spend more time with my son.  After all, there is a happy ending in every season, and with that I am very grateful that the Lord has guided me in my journey and kept me safe. Now, my life is getting better; it’s not perfect, but so much better.

To everyone who is having a hard time and who thinks life is tough, don’t lose hope; it’s just part of the process of achieving more and becoming better. As they say, “Diamonds are made under pressure, and so are we. Life challenges will create YOU.” With hard work, will, and perseverance, everything is possible.  Looking at the past, I can say it was indeed a great battle, and I know there is so much more.

But always remember, “Kakapoy karun, Ayahay later”. Be determined!